Hello World...

Hi! My name is Becca...okay, it's not really Becca, but I live in a very, VERY small town, with a family that knows how to scour the internet, so Becca it will have to be.

I live with my husband, Jason (again, so not his real name, but I actually like Jason BETTER than his real name!) We have been together for 7 years, and married for 5. Jason works in a local factory creating extremely expensive pieces of furniture. I work as a stay-at-home-mom and have recently become a full-time freelance writer.

We also have two children - our son is 6 and our daughter 3. You won't be hearing much about them here, because this is not a blog about my family.

Simply put: this is a blog about sex.

Jason and I are still madly in love...when it comes to the bedroom, we have our good days and our not so good days, just like anyone else. I slept with one other man besides my husband, but he's had a lot more experience in the bedroom. Between the two of us, we know how to get things done and get them done well.

That being said.

For the past few years I've been extremely turned on by girl-on-girl videos. Watching two women go at it made me feel ashamed - like maybe I was a lesbian and didn't realize it! But no, I enjoy cock too much to go without it, so I wondered what was wrong with me. I started browsing websites and learning more and more about the different relationships and sexual experiences out there, from the polyamorous people to those that are into domination and submission. I learned that I was a submissive in the bedroom, because I want Jason to have total control.

I started learning about swinging.

The idea sounded appealing: to have sex with another man, or a woman, while my husband was doing the same thing right near me? Is that okay?!

I talked with Jason and, just for the hell of it, put a profile up on a few swinging websites. We started browsing around and realized that there were a lot more people, even in our small neck of the woods, that are into swinging than we ever realized!

So here we are, ready to embark on this world together, because after all, how do you know if you like the rollercoaster unless you get on, strap in and ride the ride?

What should you expect from this blog? Questions...LOTS of questions...thoughts about swinging...and, when it happens, a play-by-play of that first experience. I'm getting really hot just thinking about it! I will also be posting stories from my own bedroom, about how horny this whole experience is making both of us, and how we are in the bedroom now.

Strap on - it's gonna be a ride...